Show "label has been placed..." even for self-labels (#3874)

* show labels placed on your content even if it's a self-label

even friendlier wording

friendlier wording

remove unnecessary `export`

temp revert reordering

show labels placed on your content even if it's a self-label

* Bump api 0.12.9

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Co-authored-by: Paul Frazee <pfrazee@gmail.com>

package.json

@@ -51,7 +51,7 @@
   },
   "dependencies": {
     "@atproto-labs/api": "^0.12.8-clipclops.0",
-    "@atproto/api": "^0.12.6",
+    "@atproto/api": "^0.12.9",
     "@bam.tech/react-native-image-resizer": "^3.0.4",
     "@braintree/sanitize-url": "^6.0.2",
     "@discord/bottom-sheet": "bluesky-social/react-native-bottom-sheet",