Server-side thread mutes (#4518)

* update atproto/api

* move thread mutes to server side

* rm log

* move muted threads provider to inside did key

* use map instead of object

package.json

@@ -49,7 +49,7 @@
     "open-analyzer": "EXPO_PUBLIC_OPEN_ANALYZER=1 yarn build-web"
   },
   "dependencies": {
-    "@atproto/api": "^0.12.18",
+    "@atproto/api": "^0.12.19",
     "@bam.tech/react-native-image-resizer": "^3.0.4",
     "@braintree/sanitize-url": "^6.0.2",
     "@discord/bottom-sheet": "bluesky-social/react-native-bottom-sheet",