diff --git a/lexicons.json b/lexicons.json
index ca0e64f570..5679b0f071 100644
--- a/lexicons.json
+++ b/lexicons.json
@@ -92,6 +92,7 @@
     "app.bsky.graph.muteActor",
     "app.bsky.graph.muteActorList",
     "app.bsky.graph.muteThread",
+    "app.bsky.graph.referencelistoptout",
     "app.bsky.graph.searchStarterPacks",
     "app.bsky.graph.searchStarterPacksV2",
     "app.bsky.graph.starterpack",
@@ -538,7 +539,7 @@
     },
     "app.bsky.graph.defs": {
       "uri": "at://did:plc:4v4y5r3lwsbtmsxhile2ljac/com.atproto.lexicon.schema/app.bsky.graph.defs",
-      "cid": "bafyreifcipomli7yggtl46xufgxlnrw7se6xmsdxmzgfcz2tiu76ljatxm"
+      "cid": "bafyreief2f7zpllyicjugbn7faohmnzwujeiytfzj76uckxmrqmtdvechy"
     },
     "app.bsky.graph.follow": {
       "uri": "at://did:plc:4v4y5r3lwsbtmsxhile2ljac/com.atproto.lexicon.schema/app.bsky.graph.follow",
@@ -632,6 +633,10 @@
       "uri": "at://did:plc:4v4y5r3lwsbtmsxhile2ljac/com.atproto.lexicon.schema/app.bsky.graph.muteThread",
       "cid": "bafyreib6ppci3qzye6wktkm4byxtb5mnl2vg22fm7oawcdvof2tfogx4dy"
     },
+    "app.bsky.graph.referencelistoptout": {
+      "uri": "at://did:plc:4v4y5r3lwsbtmsxhile2ljac/com.atproto.lexicon.schema/app.bsky.graph.referencelistoptout",
+      "cid": "bafyreifode2cfu7x7yamiorzg66u46l4zdr2yxmtuoikrup7j2dhwzxf3q"
+    },
     "app.bsky.graph.searchStarterPacks": {
       "uri": "at://did:plc:4v4y5r3lwsbtmsxhile2ljac/com.atproto.lexicon.schema/app.bsky.graph.searchStarterPacks",
       "cid": "bafyreia446ip6mbnwpml6hlvxab7jtsud7zczde3u6zmnsa3op4bpxu7um"
diff --git a/lexicons/app/bsky/graph/defs.json b/lexicons/app/bsky/graph/defs.json
index eca42fc875..8d77562184 100644
--- a/lexicons/app/bsky/graph/defs.json
+++ b/lexicons/app/bsky/graph/defs.json
@@ -100,6 +100,11 @@
         "subject": {
           "ref": "app.bsky.actor.defs#profileView",
           "type": "ref"
+        },
+        "subjectOptedOut": {
+          "type": "boolean",
+          "const": true,
+          "description": "Set to true when the subject has opted out of appearing in the reference list. Only set when the viewer owns the list."
         }
       }
     },
@@ -228,6 +233,11 @@
         "blocked": {
           "type": "string",
           "format": "at-uri"
+        },
+        "referenceListOptOut": {
+          "type": "string",
+          "format": "at-uri",
+          "description": "The authenticated viewer's app.bsky.graph.referencelistoptout record URI for this reference list. Only set for reference lists. A client can delete this record to undo the opt-out."
         }
       }
     },
diff --git a/lexicons/app/bsky/graph/referencelistoptout.json b/lexicons/app/bsky/graph/referencelistoptout.json
new file mode 100644
index 0000000000..e5387d8d82
--- /dev/null
+++ b/lexicons/app/bsky/graph/referencelistoptout.json
@@ -0,0 +1,30 @@
+{
+  "id": "app.bsky.graph.referencelistoptout",
+  "defs": {
+    "main": {
+      "key": "tid",
+      "type": "record",
+      "record": {
+        "type": "object",
+        "required": [
+          "subject",
+          "createdAt"
+        ],
+        "properties": {
+          "subject": {
+            "type": "string",
+            "format": "at-uri",
+            "description": "Canonical, DID-based AT URI of the app.bsky.graph.list record from which the author requests omission."
+          },
+          "createdAt": {
+            "type": "string",
+            "format": "datetime"
+          }
+        }
+      },
+      "description": "Record requesting that its author be omitted from the public presentation of a reference list. This record is only enforced when the subject list's current purpose is app.bsky.graph.defs#referencelist. AppView indexes at most one record per actor and list pair, and ignores duplicate records."
+    }
+  },
+  "$type": "com.atproto.lexicon.schema",
+  "lexicon": 1
+}
diff --git a/src/components/StarterPack/Main/ProfilesList.tsx b/src/components/StarterPack/Main/ProfilesList.tsx
index 56ac697a31..0bbe2ea080 100644
--- a/src/components/StarterPack/Main/ProfilesList.tsx
+++ b/src/components/StarterPack/Main/ProfilesList.tsx
@@ -2,6 +2,7 @@ import {forwardRef, useCallback, useImperativeHandle, useState} from 'react'
 import {type ListRenderItemInfo, View} from 'react-native'
 import {AtUri} from '@atproto/syntax'
 import {type ModerationOpts} from '@bsky/sdk/moderation'
+import {Trans} from '@lingui/react/macro'
 
 import {useBottomBarOffset} from '#/lib/hooks/useBottomBarOffset'
 import {useInitialNumToRender} from '#/lib/hooks/useInitialNumToRender'
@@ -13,11 +14,12 @@ import {type SectionRef} from '#/screens/Profile/Sections/types'
 import {atoms as a, useTheme} from '#/alf'
 import {ListFooter, ListMaybePlaceholder} from '#/components/Lists'
 import {Default as ProfileCard} from '#/components/ProfileCard'
+import {Text} from '#/components/Typography'
 import {IS_NATIVE, IS_WEB} from '#/env'
 import {type app} from '#/lexicons'
 
-function keyExtractor(item: app.bsky.actor.defs.ProfileView, index: number) {
-  return `${item.did}-${index}`
+function keyExtractor(item: app.bsky.graph.defs.ListItemView) {
+  return item.uri
 }
 
 interface ProfilesListProps {
@@ -42,26 +44,27 @@ export const ProfilesList = forwardRef<SectionRef, ProfilesListProps>(
 
     // The server returns these sorted by descending creation date, so we want to invert
 
-    const profiles = data
+    const listItems = data
       ?.filter(
         p => !isBlockedOrBlocking(p.subject) && !p.subject.associated?.labeler,
       )
-      .map(p => p.subject)
       .reverse()
     const isOwn = new AtUri(listUri).host === currentAccount?.did
 
     const getSortedProfiles = () => {
-      if (!profiles) return
-      if (!isOwn) return profiles
+      if (!listItems) return
+      if (!isOwn) return listItems
 
-      const myIndex = profiles.findIndex(p => p.did === currentAccount?.did)
+      const myIndex = listItems.findIndex(
+        item => item.subject.did === currentAccount?.did,
+      )
       return myIndex !== -1
         ? [
-            profiles[myIndex],
-            ...profiles.slice(0, myIndex),
-            ...profiles.slice(myIndex + 1),
+            listItems[myIndex],
+            ...listItems.slice(0, myIndex),
+            ...listItems.slice(myIndex + 1),
           ]
-        : profiles
+        : listItems
     }
     const onScrollToTop = useCallback(() => {
       scrollElRef.current?.scrollToOffset({
@@ -77,7 +80,7 @@ export const ProfilesList = forwardRef<SectionRef, ProfilesListProps>(
     const renderItem = ({
       item,
       index,
-    }: ListRenderItemInfo<app.bsky.actor.defs.ProfileView>) => {
+    }: ListRenderItemInfo<app.bsky.graph.defs.ListItemView>) => {
       return (
         <View
           style={[
@@ -86,10 +89,15 @@ export const ProfilesList = forwardRef<SectionRef, ProfilesListProps>(
             (IS_WEB || index !== 0) && a.border_t,
           ]}>
           <ProfileCard
-            profile={item}
+            profile={item.subject}
             moderationOpts={moderationOpts}
             logContext="StarterPackProfilesList"
           />
+          {item.subjectOptedOut ? (
+            <Text style={[a.text_sm, t.atoms.text_contrast_medium]}>
+              <Trans>Opted out of this starter pack</Trans>
+            </Text>
+          ) : null}
         </View>
       )
     }
diff --git a/src/screens/StarterPack/StarterPackScreen.tsx b/src/screens/StarterPack/StarterPackScreen.tsx
index e73bab09ce..d73e9b6b1e 100644
--- a/src/screens/StarterPack/StarterPackScreen.tsx
+++ b/src/screens/StarterPack/StarterPackScreen.tsx
@@ -30,6 +30,7 @@ import {useResolveDidQuery} from '#/state/queries/resolve-uri'
 import {useShortenLink} from '#/state/queries/shorten-link'
 import {
   useDeleteStarterPackMutation,
+  useReferenceListOptOutMutation,
   useStarterPackQuery,
 } from '#/state/queries/starter-packs'
 import {useAppviewClient, usePdsClient, useSession} from '#/state/session'
@@ -523,6 +524,7 @@ function OverflowMenu({
   const reportDialogControl = useReportDialogControl()
   const deleteDialogControl = useDialogControl()
   const convertToListDialogControl = useDialogControl()
+  const optOutDialogControl = useDialogControl()
   const navigation = useNavigation<NavigationProp>()
 
   const {
@@ -546,6 +548,19 @@ function OverflowMenu({
   })
 
   const isOwn = starterPack.creator.did === currentAccount?.did
+  const referenceListOptOut = starterPack.list?.viewer?.referenceListOptOut
+  const {mutate: setReferenceListOptOut, isPending: isOptOutPending} =
+    useReferenceListOptOutMutation({
+      starterPack,
+      onError: error => {
+        logger.error('Failed to update starter pack opt-out', {
+          safeMessage: error,
+        })
+        Toast.show(_(msg`Failed to update starter pack opt-out`), {
+          type: 'error',
+        })
+      },
+    })
 
   const onDeleteStarterPack = async () => {
     if (!starterPack.list) {
@@ -650,6 +665,22 @@ function OverflowMenu({
                 </Menu.ItemText>
                 <Menu.ItemIcon icon={CircleInfo} position="right" />
               </Menu.Item>
+              <Menu.Item
+                label={
+                  referenceListOptOut
+                    ? _(msg`Undo opt-out from starter pack`)
+                    : _(msg`Opt out of starter pack`)
+                }
+                disabled={isOptOutPending}
+                onPress={() => optOutDialogControl.open()}>
+                <Menu.ItemText>
+                  {referenceListOptOut ? (
+                    <Trans>Undo opt-out</Trans>
+                  ) : (
+                    <Trans>Opt out of starter pack</Trans>
+                  )}
+                </Menu.ItemText>
+              </Menu.Item>
             </>
           )}
         </Menu.Outer>
@@ -709,6 +740,52 @@ function OverflowMenu({
         </Prompt.Actions>
       </Prompt.Outer>
 
+      <Prompt.Outer control={optOutDialogControl}>
+        <Prompt.TitleText>
+          {referenceListOptOut ? (
+            <Trans>Undo opt-out?</Trans>
+          ) : (
+            <Trans>Opt out of this starter pack?</Trans>
+          )}
+        </Prompt.TitleText>
+        <Prompt.DescriptionText>
+          {referenceListOptOut ? (
+            <Trans>You will appear in this starter pack again.</Trans>
+          ) : (
+            <Trans>
+              You will no longer appear in this starter pack. The creator can
+              still remove you from its member list.
+            </Trans>
+          )}
+        </Prompt.DescriptionText>
+        <Prompt.Actions>
+          <Button
+            variant="solid"
+            color={referenceListOptOut ? 'primary' : 'negative'}
+            size={gtMobile ? 'small' : 'large'}
+            label={
+              referenceListOptOut
+                ? _(msg`Undo opt-out`)
+                : _(msg`Opt out of starter pack`)
+            }
+            disabled={isOptOutPending}
+            onPress={() => {
+              optOutDialogControl.close()
+              setReferenceListOptOut({referenceListOptOut})
+            }}>
+            <ButtonText>
+              {referenceListOptOut ? (
+                <Trans>Undo opt-out</Trans>
+              ) : (
+                <Trans>Opt out</Trans>
+              )}
+            </ButtonText>
+            {isOptOutPending && <ButtonIcon icon={Loader} />}
+          </Button>
+          <Prompt.Cancel />
+        </Prompt.Actions>
+      </Prompt.Outer>
+
       <CreateListFromStarterPackDialog
         control={convertToListDialogControl}
         starterPack={starterPack}
diff --git a/src/state/queries/list-members.ts b/src/state/queries/list-members.ts
index 1d76296623..409ad0a227 100644
--- a/src/state/queries/list-members.ts
+++ b/src/state/queries/list-members.ts
@@ -84,7 +84,10 @@ export async function invalidateListMembersQuery({
   queryClient: QueryClient
   uri: string
 }) {
-  await queryClient.invalidateQueries({queryKey: RQKEY(uri)})
+  await Promise.all([
+    queryClient.invalidateQueries({queryKey: RQKEY(uri)}),
+    queryClient.invalidateQueries({queryKey: RQKEY_ALL(uri)}),
+  ])
 }
 
 export function* findAllProfilesInQueryData(
diff --git a/src/state/queries/starter-packs.ts b/src/state/queries/starter-packs.ts
index 7dcb76e706..59550f6373 100644
--- a/src/state/queries/starter-packs.ts
+++ b/src/state/queries/starter-packs.ts
@@ -71,6 +71,116 @@ export function useStarterPackQuery({
   })
 }
 
+export function useReferenceListOptOutMutation({
+  starterPack,
+  onError,
+}: {
+  starterPack: app.bsky.graph.defs.StarterPackView
+  onError: (error: Error) => void
+}) {
+  const queryClient = useQueryClient()
+  const appviewClient = useAppviewClient()
+  const pdsClient = usePdsClient()
+  const parsed = parseStarterPackUri(starterPack.uri)!
+  const queryKey = RQKEY({did: parsed.name, rkey: parsed.rkey})
+
+  return useMutation<
+    AtUriString | undefined,
+    Error,
+    {referenceListOptOut?: string},
+    {previous?: app.bsky.graph.defs.StarterPackView}
+  >({
+    mutationFn: async ({referenceListOptOut}) => {
+      if (!starterPack.list) {
+        throw new Error('Starter pack does not have a reference list')
+      }
+
+      let nextOptOut: AtUriString | undefined
+      if (referenceListOptOut) {
+        const {rkeySafe: rkey} = new AtUri(referenceListOptOut)
+        await pdsClient.delete(app.bsky.graph.referencelistoptout, {
+          repo: pdsClient.assertDid,
+          rkey,
+        })
+      } else {
+        const result = await pdsClient.create(
+          app.bsky.graph.referencelistoptout,
+          {
+            subject: starterPack.list.uri,
+            createdAt: toDatetimeString(new Date()),
+          },
+        )
+        nextOptOut = result.uri
+      }
+
+      await until(
+        5,
+        1e3,
+        (value, error) =>
+          !error &&
+          value.starterPack.list?.viewer?.referenceListOptOut === nextOptOut,
+        async () =>
+          await appviewClient.call(app.bsky.graph.getStarterPack, {
+            starterPack: starterPack.uri,
+          }),
+      )
+      return nextOptOut
+    },
+    onMutate: async ({referenceListOptOut}) => {
+      await queryClient.cancelQueries({queryKey})
+      const previous =
+        queryClient.getQueryData<app.bsky.graph.defs.StarterPackView>(queryKey)
+      queryClient.setQueryData<app.bsky.graph.defs.StarterPackView>(
+        queryKey,
+        current =>
+          current?.list
+            ? {
+                ...current,
+                list: {
+                  ...current.list,
+                  viewer: {
+                    ...current.list.viewer,
+                    referenceListOptOut: referenceListOptOut
+                      ? undefined
+                      : `at://${pdsClient.assertDid}/app.bsky.graph.referencelistoptout/pending`,
+                  },
+                },
+              }
+            : current,
+      )
+      return {previous}
+    },
+    onSuccess: referenceListOptOut => {
+      queryClient.setQueryData<app.bsky.graph.defs.StarterPackView>(
+        queryKey,
+        current =>
+          current?.list
+            ? {
+                ...current,
+                list: {
+                  ...current.list,
+                  viewer: {
+                    ...current.list.viewer,
+                    referenceListOptOut,
+                  },
+                },
+              }
+            : current,
+      )
+      void invalidateListMembersQuery({
+        queryClient,
+        uri: starterPack.list!.uri,
+      })
+    },
+    onError: (error, _, context) => {
+      if (context?.previous) {
+        queryClient.setQueryData(queryKey, context.previous)
+      }
+      onError(error)
+    },
+  })
+}
+
 export async function invalidateStarterPack({
   queryClient,
   did,