Use macos-26-xlarge runner, update actions to resolve caching issues (#9411)

* use xlarge runner for macos build

* try and fix yarn cache

* update actions/cache for pods step

* use expo github action main rather than v8

* update all actions to the same

* use yarn cache where missing

.github/workflows/verify-yarn-lock.yml

@@ -3,7 +3,7 @@ name: Lockfile
 on:
   pull_request:
 concurrency:
-  group: '${{ github.workflow }}-${{ github.head_ref || github.ref }}'
+  group: "${{ github.workflow }}-${{ github.head_ref || github.ref }}"
   cancel-in-progress: true
 
 jobs:
@@ -12,7 +12,7 @@ jobs:
     runs-on: ubuntu-latest
     steps:
       - name: Check out PR HEAD
-        uses: actions/checkout@v3
+        uses: actions/checkout@v4
         with:
           fetch-depth: 0
 
@@ -20,7 +20,7 @@ jobs:
         run: git fetch origin ${{ github.base_ref }} --depth=1
 
       - name: Install node
-        uses: actions/setup-node@v4
+        uses: actions/setup-node@v6
         with:
           node-version-file: .nvmrc