Update testrunner to use new dev-env [WIP] (#1575)

* Update testrunner to use new dev-env

* Fix label testcase

* Vendor the dev-infra scripts from the atproto repo for the dev-env server runner

* Bump detox to fix the ios sim control issue

* Use iphone 15 pro for tests

* Ensure the reminders never trigger during tests

* Skip the shell tests due to a crash bug with detox and the drawer

jest/dev-infra/with-test-db.sh

@@ -0,0 +1,9 @@
+#!/usr/bin/env sh
+
+# Example usage:
+# ./with-test-db.sh psql postgresql://pg:password@localhost:5433/postgres -c 'select 1;'
+
+dir=$(dirname $0)
+. ${dir}/_common.sh
+
+SERVICES="db_test" main "$@"