Fix quote+list card padding (#8623)

* fix quote padding not being pressable

* fix list padding not being pressable

* Fix unnecessary loading of feeds (#8578)

* stop layout shifts in feed loading

* don't load feed data if we already have it

* adjust styles, alf stuff

* remove unused button, massively simplify

* fix layout shifting in notifs

* use feedcard for feed post embeds

* use bold text to match other style

* use Link component rather than jank Pressable

* prevent nested anchors in notifs

* match following text size

* add space between content hider

* Better dead feed handling (#8579)

* add space between content hider

* add handling for feeds that fail to load

* cleanError, in case of network funkiness

* handle deleted lists

* split out missingfeed

src/view/com/notifications/NotificationFeedItem.tsx

@@ -671,10 +671,12 @@ let NotificationFeedItem = ({
             {item.type === 'feedgen-like' && item.subjectUri ? (
               <FeedSourceCard
                 feedUri={item.subjectUri}
+                link={false}
                 style={[
                   t.atoms.bg,
                   t.atoms.border_contrast_low,
                   a.border,
+                  a.p_md,
                   styles.feedcard,
                 ]}
                 showLikes
@@ -1000,7 +1002,6 @@ const styles = StyleSheet.create({
   },
   feedcard: {
     borderRadius: 8,
-    paddingVertical: 12,
     marginTop: 6,
   },
   addedContainer: {